Something was terribly wrong. My niece had a long face as she stepped out of the car from school. Instead of the usual greeting, she dragged me aside to share her day.
“Why so sad, baby?” I asked. “Because I’m just number 2”, she whispered sullenly.
Ahhhh… that’s a biggie. And she wasn’t only sad. “I’m angry, too.” she mumbled, her little arms wrapped around my neck as I carried her into the house.
The Backstory
Last August, no one was more thrilled than my niece when she learned she topped her class for the quarter. Needless to say, it was a proud moment for a then 5-year old. However, her position was tenuous. The girl who came next to her was within spitting distance so if she didn’t do well the following quarter, there was a big chance that she would slide down from No. 1.
Work harder
Even as small children, there are lessons to be learned about pride. Just because we are the best today does not necessarily guarantee we will remain that way in the future. It never pays to be complacent if you want to be number one or the best because you can never tell how hungry Numbers 2 and the rest are to wrest the position from you.
And little niece was just a wee-bit too confident. Or maybe, she’s just a child who has yet to fully understand that you have to work just as hard, if not harder, the next time around to keep that place. In school, nothing is really handed to you on a silver platter. You must earn every accolade or praise through sweat and tears.
During the first periodicals, she must have aced 6 of the 7 tests. The one she didn’t, gave her a 98 percent. When her test papers for the second quarter came back, only three of the tests came out perfect. She was either careless or was unsure about the items she missed. Still, she remained confident of staying number 1.
Alas… those results were enough for Number 2 to leapfrog her. And so it is that my niece was saddened by the news she received today.
Yet, it was a very proud moment to hear her say she will make it up so she can wrestle back the position the next time. I saw and heard her determination. She had that purposeful look written all over her face.
Only time will tell if she will indeed keep her promise to do better. Kids will always be kids no matter how much they want to excel in whatever they do. And there are days when my niece can be stubborn like a mule and no one can tell her what to do if she is deadset about not doing it… like homework or reviewing her lessons.
If she has learned her lesson after this disappointment and gets her act together to do what it takes to become number one again, it will be a double victory.
There is nothing like hard work and humility to spell real success. Whether you are six or 60. And nobody is ever too young to learn the valuable lessons of life. Overcoming obstacles is always a test of character.